Do you feel:
Worried about how your divorce will play out with your children?
Surprised by the fact that you are divorcing?
Full of Questions about the process of divorce?
Continually disappointed by what it means to communicate with your partner right now?
Afraid that you’ll become one of those “divorced” people when it’s all done (stuck, resentful, bitter)?
Imagine a life Where:
It is easy to handle uncomfortable communication with your former partner, manage the multitude of moving pieces, and protect your kids from your deepest fears about the impact of divorce in their lives
You feel confident and directed in your approach to career, financial, parenting, and divorce-related proceedings with greater insight and less resistance
You live in ways that bring about the future you design, not the one to which many others default after divorce (negative, stuck, sad)
You access that part of yourself that can get through it well and whole
Introducing…
Picture me in your back pocket for at least Three months.
Unlimited access.
Help for every step of the way Through your breaking and remaking.
you’ll be supported, guided, and equipped To handle everything divorce throws at you.
“ Andrea Helped Me Cut Through The Fear, Fog, And Confusion In Dark Dismal Days When I Wasn’t Sure Which Way Was Up. She taught me how to play the long game planting seeds that would be healthy and life giving for me and my kids years down the road.”
— Sue
“Andrea’s expertise has been invaluable…my entire outlook and dynamic with my former partner has improved significantly. I can’t recommend her enough, she has genuinely upgraded my quality of life (and my family’s by default) with her tools, guidance, feedback and support.”
— Gretchen
“I needed a Solution to help me learn to live with my ex-husband who is an extreme narcissist…what i found in andrea was far more Than i had ever expected. the tools i was given helped me be less reactionary, more empathetic, and the person Who I was born to be. I only with I had met her earlier in my divorce process!”
Stop worrying.
Start Living.
Now is The time Divorce Differently.
step into My Proven Divorce Coaching Program to do Just that.
Your Journey toward Deep peace And freedom from the strain of Your divorce begins today!
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Is My Coaching Program right for you?
(It’s a Yes if you can’t get through this Next list without nodding your head.)
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Shocked by How Out of Control You Feel
Divorce destabilizes everything. Your fight or flight response is in high gear. You feel the pain, the rage, the injustice, the loss, the gain…everything. All the time.
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Struggling with Communicating Well
Texts and face-to-face interactions with your former partner drive you crazy. You blow it off like this is just what happens, but you wonder if there’s a trick you haven’t learned.
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Worried about the Kids
Your kids are your heart. Divorce was not in the plans. You’re willing to do the work to parent them well (and sometimes differently) in order to create a healthy two-address family for them no matter what it takes.
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Deeply Unsettled
You’re asking yourself, “Is this how everybody feels during or after divorce?” You left one life, but the new rearrangement of the next life feels unfamiliar and you’re not quite at home in it.
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Fed Up with a Difficult Former Partner
You’re dealing with a high conflict person who blames, has unmanaged emotions, and uses all-or-nothing thinking to make your daily life hard.
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Feeling Like You Can't Win
Your life is fueled by your irritations with your former partner, your fears about the future, and your seeming inability to get yourself untangled from your divorce story.
You’re a perfect fit for you if:
You're ready to reclaim control over your life and circumstances
You're finally ready to have clarity around your divorce
You're ready to feel calm and confident with how you advocate for yourself and your family
You don’t want to stumble through this process alone
You want to save time and money in your divorce
You want the best outcome for your kids
You want to make something beautiful from your post-divorced life
It’s NOT for you if:
You want to divorce in the typical way (blaming, resentful, unwilling to reimagine life)
You’re looking for a quick fix to your painful divorce
You think coaching will keep you from pain. There is inevitable pain in divorce. This program will help you manage it better and keep it from spreading.
You aren’t willing to invest in the very few things you do take with you after divorce - yourself, your children, and your intention to create a beautiful two-address family
“Divorce is the most terrifying place you’ve been trying to avoid. Andrea’s role was something I didn’t know I needed. Simply put, Andrea lit the way and showed me a map through the terrifying place. Andrea has a way of cutting to the chase and drilling down right into what’s most important. I learned that sometimes I needed to let things go to really move forward. She was also really helpful in going through different scenarios of how my actions would shape my future relationship with my former spouse. Andrea saw me at my worst and still believed in my best. She would call me out on my limiting thoughts and limiting behavior and she help me cast a vision for what I wanted for my children. And that vision was inspiring and excellent and achievable!”
— Christie
FAQs
Answers to all of your questions about coaching with me.
How in the world can I afford this on top of Everything else?
Fair question. We invest a great deal of money on the legal side of our divorce, but when it comes to the emotional and relational side, we hesitate. You cannot put a price on what it feels to be at home in your life, relaxed around your former partner (regardless of their crazy), and finally whole and healed.
How is this Program Like therapy or Counseling?
Therapy is about uncovering and recovering your past and what led to the situation you find yourself in now. It is a vital part of healing and helps you detect patterns and create healing spaces. My coaching is future focused and dedicated to helping you navigate your real life as it presents to you right now.
My Former partner is so difficult - Is this for me?
Your former partner will not change. You know this. But you still get rocked by their predictable ways of disappointing or agitating you. There are important skills you can learn to get less rocked (or not at all!), better manage your reactions, and feel confident in how you’re handling it.
What Stage of My Divorce Does Divorce Differently Address?
Divorce Differently is for people who are just starting their divorce, currently moving through their divorce, or living with the unresolved debris of an earlier divorce.
Is This all recordings or do i have access to you?
I run a “high touch” coaching program. You can schedule private one-on-one coaching to work specifically on the issues that create difficulty in your life. In between sessions you have unrestricted access to text me. In addition, you’ll get FREE access to Divorce Differently: The Course.
I’m Exhausted, Will I have enough energy for this?
Of course you're tired! But you’re also tired of what life looks and feels like right now. The program delivers content to you on a steady basis, but you will have lifetime access to the materials. If you need to skip a week, skip it. (P.S. We will strategize about how to ensure you’re creating better energy reserves!)
I Need you to do it all for me, can you do that?
No, I can’t, but I’m here to develop the parts of you that need to grow in order to handle what life looks like now - the good and the bad. You will need to bring your intention to try new things, experiment with new ideas, and start creating a new experience for yourself. Trust me, you’ll want it!
How Long Does Divorce Differently Run?
Transformation rarely happens quickly when we move through such a destabilizing event. Several months of work together gives you opportunity to hit a number of divorce milestones with unlimited support.
