Take a deep breath.
Yes. Right now.
Chances are good that if you’ve landed here, you need one. Maybe several.
It’s okay to be sad.
It’s okay to be scared.
It’s okay to be stuck.
Your divorce doesn’t mean your life is over. It means your life is changing. My goal is for you to overcome the breaking and piece together a beautiful new story in the remaking of your life. I’m committed to helping you discover what’s next and pursuing it with a full heart.
The Questions Keeping You Up at Night
Divorce brings a storm of unknowns. You’re carrying fear, heartbreak, and responsibilities you never imagined you’d face. It’s overwhelming to sort through what matters most when everything feels urgent and every choice feels permanent.
That’s where coaching comes in. I create a safe, steady space to help you untangle the confusion and find a clear way forward. Together, we’ll work through the questions weighing most heavily on your heart, like:
What do I need to know as I contemplate getting divorced?
What logistics — financial, housing, legal process — do I need to prepare for?
How will I know if I should stay married or get divorced?
How do I best support my kids as they adjust?
What do I do with all of this pain, sadness, guilt, and anger?
How do I move into the differently-shaped space that is my life now?
How do I communicate with my former spouse when I’m triggered?
How can I avoid painful and costly mistakes as the divorce process unfolds?
How do I manage the wild emotions that divorce stirs up in me?
Will I ever be okay again?
How We Can Work Together
I offer three levels of support depending on where you are in your journey. Each one gives you tools, strategies, and guidance to help you move forward.
Divorce Coaching Starter Pack
Four focused sessions designed to help you get unstuck, make decisions, and step forward with more confidence.
Divorce Differently
A monthly engagement that includes coaching sessions, unlimited texting, and access to my digital course. Perfect if you need consistent support, real-time guidance, and tools to keep you steady through the ups and downs.
Couples Coaching
Sometimes you don’t need to divorce the human; you need to divorce the dynamic. Couples coaching helps you and your partner identify unhealthy patterns, rebuild trust, and discover new ways of being together.
Not sure which is right for you?
I Can Help.
Which Professional Do I Need?
Divorce coaches operate in a sacred, time-limited, and pressure-cooking space for those going through relationship disruption. Your divorce attorney is trained, skilled, and interested in helping you navigate this season inside the legal arena, not outside of it. Your therapist can help you uncover and recover parts of your story. Here are some more key differences and why a divorce coach is an important part of your team of advisors.
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This person serves as your legal representation. They will help you draft all the necessary paperwork, advise you about the divorce laws in your state, and negotiate to ensure you get the best possible divorce settlement.
They will not help you handle your former partner’s aggressive and combative attitude. They cannot help you get organized for the long, exhausting, stressful and emotionally taxing divorce process. And they are not on retainer to help you face your fears about your future or about your kids
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This person is a mental health professional and can help with treatments for things like depression, which you might experience as a result of your divorce. A therapist will help you evaluate and confront your past and help you work through grief and loss. A therapist will help you focus on why certain patterns exist in your life.
They will not come alongside you with logistical guidance in the divorce process or help you make the most of your costly hours with your attorney. They also won’t help you organize and gather the information you’ll need in your divorce so you feel confident and prepared. Since they focus on why certain patterns exist in your life, they focus less on how to think about your future and reach your goals going forward.
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As your divorce coach and member of your team, I will help you focus on your future and create actionable goals as well as hold you accountable for them. I will help you navigate your new circumstances, execute strategies for communication and co-parenting, and make well-informed decisions with confidence and with your future in mind.
I will help you work through the seasonal firsts following your divorce such as creating new holiday traditions, regulating your emotions and reactions when your former spouse begins dating someone else, handling child rearing from two addresses, managing yourself when things are not going your way, and how to leverage your new alone time for accomplishing your goals.
“Andrea’s Expertise Has Been Invaluable…My Entire Outlook And Dynamic With My Former Partner Has Improved Significantly. I Can’t Recommend Her Enough, She Has Genuinely Upgraded My Quality Of Life (And My Family’s By Default) With Her Tools, Guidance, Feedback And Support.”
—Gretchen
I Needed A Solution To Help Me Learn To Live With My Ex-Husband Who Is An Extreme Narcissist…What I Found In Andrea Was Far More Than I Had Ever Expected. The Tools I Was Given Helped Me Be Less Reactionary, More Empathetic, And The Person Who I Was Born To Be. I Only Wish I Had Met Her Earlier In My Divorce Process!
— Kelly
Ready to Take the Next Step?
No matter which path you choose, the first step is simple: a complimentary discovery call. We’ll talk about your situation, your goals, and which option is the best fit for you.